Relationships are hard, and many come to the inevitable end, either from interest from both parties, or maybe it was just time for it to end. Whatever your circumstances, if you’re currently involved in a relationship that you feel has become predictable, it might be time for you to make some changes in the whole relationship. These changes will inevitably include what happens in your bedroom, and between the sheets.
If it’s your wish to put some spark back into your lovemaking, you might have to move out of your comfort zone a little. Many more Australians are now using sex toys in the bedroom, and these are not just for the ladies. For your male partner, you can use male masturbators to bring your man to climax, and you can take all of the credit for it. This is just one way to make your time in the bedroom more exciting, and the following are some others that you might want to consider if you want to keep your relationship strong.
- Try something different – Predictability is the enemy of many relationships, and once you start knowing what’s going to happen in the bedroom, it’s time to make some changes. Nobody likes change, but it is inevitable that it’s going to happen if your relationship is to survive. Talk to your partner about introducing new things into the bedroom, like sexy underwear, some sex toys, and even some food.
- It’s about better communication – If there is something that you really want to do in the bedroom, but you’re too scared to talk about it with your partner, that is the problem right there. Both partners need to communicate with each other, to let each other know what turns them on and what turns them off. You can’t expect your partner to know what it is that you need and want if you’re not prepared to tell them in the first place.
- Try some fantasy roles – Everyone will not readily admit to having fantasies about certain individuals, but we all have them. When we get some time to ourselves to use our sex toys on ourselves, you can be pretty sure that she is thinking about a handsome movie star, and he is doing likewise. If there is a particular role that you would like your partner to play, mention it and see what the reaction is. You might get a pleasant surprise, and they might tell you about what they would like you to dress up as.
The secret is to always be trying to change things up a little and not settle for the normal. Many people just assume that their partner knows that they love them, but they never tell them directly. You need to make sure that you do not make this mistake, and remind your partner how much they mean to you every single day. It could be something as simple as putting a note in their lunchbox or just telling them.
